
Tuesday, May 14, 2013
story of love

story of first time sex
Asgley
When i had first turned 16 a boy in my grade told me he wanted to be my first.. at first i thought that i was okay with that cause we had been together for aboit 5 months but something just felt wrong.. i told him i wasnt ready and he dumped me.. i talked to my mom and sje told me to just move on and not give into peer presure.. im now 17 and jave been with mt current boyfriend for a little bit over a year! We slept together on our one year anniversary!! He told me that if i didnt wanna do it i didnt jave to and if he was hurtin me he would stop.. it hurt a little at first bit he was gentle and finally tje pain went away.. now when we enggage in sex its always amazing! I love that i waited for him but i do wish i wouldve waited mayne a little longer. I feel like i just went with the crowd and gave in.. but i love this boy more tjan life itself!!
Kristen
I am kris.i m 19. I lost my virginity when i was 17. It was with this guy in my school (or you can call my ''crush''). He was also 17. He kinda flirted with me then i would flirt back. Then gradually we started to date. Once when we were in his bedroom, we kinda had oral sex. Then, he asked me whether i was ready for having sex or not. First i declined but then i felt ready and said yes. He asked me a number of times, and i would agree. When he inserted his penis, it hurted like hell. Then, i pushed him back. He understood and told me to get dressed...till today we're dating. I am happy that i lost my virginity to him. I am really very glad.
But everytime, with every girl, this type of luck can't be achived. So i'm just telling that think once before you are ready to do this. Be careful :-)
But everytime, with every girl, this type of luck can't be achived. So i'm just telling that think once before you are ready to do this. Be careful :-)
Lala
It was on a Monday in November that I lost my virginity at the age of 19. I am slightly ashamed that I only waited for 4 months after dating "him," but there was something different about him. I'd been in serious relationships before but this was better; we were very comfortable together and laughed all the time. We've been dating 1.5 years with plans for our future. I used this website to help reassure me.
I was already on birth control and condoms are excruciatingly painful for me so that's how we did it. I told him that I wanted to have sex with him and he refused to oblige. First I was just joking about it, but he told me that if I still wanted to in a week, then he would agree. He is really sweet and told me that he didn't want to be the one that I would regret doing it with. When it happened I wanted to cry but I stopped myself. I didn't understand why but I was embarrassed and hid it. Sometimes I wish I had waited but he's really serious about marrying me. (If I think about being with him forever, it makes our sex that much better.)
Like everyone says, wait for someone special and I would even recommend waiting until you're 18 at the very youngest. I love my boyfriend and don't regret it although sometimes I wish I had waited longer.
Ash
The first time I ever considered having sex I was 16 and I had been dating my then boyfriend for over 9 months although we didn't go through with it in the end. After we broke up I met the guy I did eventually lose my Virginity to. He was very kind to me and did make me feel special. He and I did partake in oral sex and such and eventually on my 17th birthday he asked me if I wanted to have sex I did say no and that I wasn't ready so he just smiled at me and told me he understood and I really respected him for that because I knew he really wanted to have sex (he wasn't a virgin). We didn't have sex until 10 months later- exactly 2 months before my 18th birthday- and I don't regret it. We had discussed having sex before and he had told me that I must only have sex when I felt I was ready and it didn't have to be him. So on the night I lost my virginity we were kissing on my bed and partaking in sexual acts when he asked me if I wanted to have sex. I felt ready and I wanted to so I said yes. He got a condom and put it on because we both didn't want to risk anything. He told me that if I wanted him to stop I must tell him and he will. I
The actual act was nowhere near as bad as I expected. I didn't bleed or experience a blinding stab of pain. He was very slow and rather than just pushing into me hard and fast, he took his time making sure I got used to his penis being inside me while repeatedly asking me if I was okay or wanted him to stop. I told him no and I only felt slightly uncomfortable at first but then when he had fully entered me it felt amazing. He was slow and sensual and afterwards we just lay on my bed and spoke. I'm happy I lost my virginity to him because he is a good friend to me and he does love me. The fact that he respected me enough to wait for when I was ready told me a lot about him and that makes me pleased I lost it to him.
However to end this on an enriching and educational topic I feel that this needs to be said: Do NOT have sex if you are not ready especially if you are not of the legal age limit. There is an age limit for a reason and you can not see the importance of that decision until later in life. Last, make sure the person you lose your virginity respects you and realises it's importance. Be safe, be ready and do not be afraid to say NO!
Kech
I dated a guy in my university days for 3and half years and we always quarrel about sex,i was a virgin and he was not,we do romance,but anytime it gets beyond that,i didnt agree,he was my first love but i didnt have any reason to lose my virginity because i was afraid of God and the sad stories ladies go through when they lose their virginity,i didn't want to fall victim,he would tell me i dont love him,but i told him if he wants it we should get married and we can have license to do it without fear of any sort,then he would keep quiet,then after 3and the half years we broke up,he said he still loves me,but we were always quarelling cos of sex,now am married at age 24 and i lost my virginity to my husband,though it was very painful and i didnt bleed,am happy i got married before doing it,cos mx husband loves and gives me utmost respect.am happy i stood my ground despite when people said virginity is old fashioned,i didnt care what they said,but at s6e point i never told people i was a virgin,i acted as if i had done it sn people wouldnt notice.
Nicole
I had a boyfriend who always talked about having sex and i wasn't comfortable with it. I was 17 years old and felt like maybe I should. I talked to my aunt and she told me that if he really truly loved me like he said he did he would understand and wait. In the end we broke up and a year later I became very good friends with a guy I had a crush on. This friendship turned into a relationship and it was so much better than my previous relationship. He never continuously asked me about sex or made me feel like I had to. I finally decided that I was ready and when we had sex it was amazing. It wasn't just the pleasure from sex(don't get me wrong that was part of it) it was connecting with someone that I truly loved and someone I knew loved me. We are still together today and everytime we have sex its the same as the first. *My message is don't be forced into it because he makes you think you have to. There is always someone out there that will prove him wrong you just have to find him like I did.
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